Should It Be A Crime If Transgender People Have Sex W/ Heterosexual People Without Disclosing Their Transgender Status?

​Heterosexual people do NOT have to have sex with anyone who was BORN of the same sex as them; if they don’t desire. Heterosexual people have a choice, and that choice should be protected like transgender people’s sexual preferences.

Transgender men can FEEL like a woman all day. Nobody is stopping you from FEELING like a woman….

But heterosexual men FEEL like they only want to have sex with natural born women, and that’s fine too. 

Stop trying to emotionally manipulate people into being involved in a lifestyle and community they don’t want to be associated with…. I swear some of y’all pro-trans people try to emotionally guilt trip others into being involved in what some heterosexuals might consider homosexuality. 

Transgender people’s feelings have no superiority over heterosexual people’s…. I should be able to select who I want to have sex with based on my OWN sexuality, not YOURS. Calling him FRAGILE or a PUNK (the same name calling and verbal abuse they used on homosexuals back in the day) does not take away any feelings of him being sexually violated. 

How I, a woman (or in this case a heterosexual man) feels about or during any sexual encounter is VALID…. Don’t try to fucking bully men into being okay with things that they’re not….

Y’all pro-trans muthafuckas remind of people who try to make virgins feel guilty for not wanting to have sex. Just because a virgin gets horny doesn’t mean they should be guilt trip’d into sucking dick; and neither should a HETEROsexual man. 

If you know heterosexual men don’t want to have sex with transgender people; you should tell men about your background to avoid violating his sexuality. 

I mean damn…. How hard is it to only have sex with people who want to have sex with you. Stop violating people’s sexuality. It’s not rocket science. There are plenty of men who (after you disclose your history) will still want to have sex with you. I personally wouldn’t want to have sex with anyone who I suspect would regret it afterwards.

That shit can result in lasting emotional trauma to a heterosexual man, and pro-trans people solution is “he better stop acting like a fucking punk and get over it”…. Anything that can drive a man to cry, murder, or suicide is not something that we should force him to just get over. Clearly it caused some psychological damage, and at that point he is considered a victim. Your sexuality is yours, but (from a physical stand point) it shouldn’t negatively impact other people’s mental or physical health and/or emotional stability.

If that person is just upset you’re transgender then you can definitely say “get over it”…. But if you knowingly have sex with him and he’s suffering from PTSD afterwards; that shit is not okay…. I don’t give a fuck what your sexuality is; NOBODY should FEEL ashamed of themselves after they’ve had sex with another person.

Like I said, if I feel like there’s any possibility that someone will feel ashamed of having sex with me (afterwards), I’m not fucking doing it.

And since when did the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy get reinstated. I thought we did away with that to ensure homosexual and transgender people could be open about their sexuality. Now all of a sudden we want to conveniently keep secrets again. You ask any doctor on this planet if you should ask your sexual partner about their history and they’ll tell you “YES!”…. As soon as you are willing to have sex with another person, they have a right to know, and your history becomes their fucking business. Regardless of your sexuality you should be having OPEN and HONEST conversations about any history pertaining to sex, gender, preference, etc. This is what makes you a mature adult. Transgender people are not fucking exempt.

If you’re proud of who you are and you made the decision to be transgender; what’s the problem with telling him? You’re trying to intentionally deceive him and knowingly violate his sexuality, therefore considering how the events occur your ass might belong in jail.

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​ATTRACTIVE MEN ARE FUCKING BORING!!!!! 

When I say attractive I’m referring to pretty much all good looking men and ugly men who have a considerable amount of women for whatever reason. I don’t mind starting a convo, BUT DAMN! They just expect to set back and be entertained by my keen wit thee entire fucking time…. 

ME: “Muthafucka you’re not going to return the favor?!?!” 

Then they’ll randomly hit you with that indecisive “what you tryna do?” line…. They’ll say it in a way that’s suggestive and shyly open to interpretation…. “Please don’t throw out any innuendo sir, because I can assure you I’d rather fuck a more interesting man.”

AND they automatically assume you want to have sex with them as much as they want to have sex with you…. “You want to fuck the shit out of me because I’ve given you a reason; your mundane ass haven’t given me any reason to even like you. I guess I’m supposed to like you, because you like me????”

HIM: “sooo… you really not turned on at all?!”…. 

ME: “I mean…. I’m good.”

THE HONEST ANSWER: “Am I turned on at the fact there is hard dick across the table that desires me…. Yeah, that’s kind of cute…. But I wouldn’t say I’m turned on by you, as a man. I’m not fighting back the urge to smuggle your balls inside my fucking cheeks if that’s what you’re asking.”

I’m bout to start just flat out telling niggas they boring aa fuck…. From here on out you muthafuckas are NOT SAFE! You’ve been warned 😠

​HARD LUST FOR A FAKE ASS NUN

I’ve unknowingly became sexy on some weird shit. I guess because I don’t have skin showing, I had to make up for my lack of sexiness in my appearances, with sexiness in other things I do…. There’s a dude at the job that all the ladies like. I wasnt paying this mf no mind. He’s an older man at least in his 40’s and of course he smooth af. Not sure when I caught his eye but this mf started blushing on the low because I touched his water bottle…. I looked at him like “wtf is wrong with you?”. I didn’t know men his age could even blush. He started laughing and shit, and all the other women started to get curious asking what was going on?…. Hell if I know; this nigga weird…. Once all the women settled down and gave up on discovering why he was having some much without them. He looked at me and politely asked for his water bottle back. He said it with a seductive wink 😉 like it had my juices on it or something.

“Ooohhhhhhh you like that????” (Mmmmm)

One day I showed him (without true intentions) what I could do with a bottle of hand sanitizer that accidently (serious accident) opened while I was fiddling with it and slightly squirted out…. He bout lost his fucking mind!!…. “Over hand sanitizer?!?!?!” 😕…. Let me put this shit down before this handsome mf get us both fired. Smh I promise I don’t be doing shit to entice anybody into doing anything (for real)…. Men be staring at you like they ready to toss yo ass up for no reason…. Sir I’m just over here being brown skin on a Thursday, relax.

I remember the time before last, when dude (mid to late 20’s) was staring at me so hard the white boy got nervous for me. The white boy asked the other dude “what’s going on?!” as he looked back and forth between the other dude and I…. I looked at the white boy as the other dude blatantly ignored the fuck out of him. The white boy continued to ask the other dude why he was staring at me. White boy started to focus on me because he wasn’t getting a response from the dude. I just turned around like neither one of them was there. That nigga was clearly having a moment of hard lust that came out of thin air….In a completely seperate event the other dude who was staring at me told me “sometimes when I’m staring at you I realize it, and I ask myself why the fuck am I staring at her?” (as he laughed)…. Uhhhh, because you’re turned on by my ability to blink my fucking eyelids that’s why….. I didn’t say anything tho, he had a girlfriend and I wasn’t bout to open up that can of worms.

When I first started to alter myself as a woman, I started covering myself up more and not showing my hair. I thought no man would ever talk to me because I wasn’t sexy looking and all the other girls would look better than me (because they were showing skin). Normally the only skin men can see are my hands and my face… That was a long time ago and they were silly thoughts that I quickly pushed out of my head, because I promptly decided idgaf if men didn’t think I was attractive anymore…. I’m still going to do me.

But I haven’t missed a beat….. I’m telling you If a man thinks you’re sexy, YOU’RE SEXY. Other women showing skin may get his attention, but he’s for damn sure still willing to show you some love, especially in the event you can keep him in that blissful state of pure lust…. He’ll actually start giving you more attention than the other women. Sometimes they’ll completely forget about the other women (maybe not completely, but close enough).

Men will have dreams about you too…. Stop trying so damn hard…. I put less than a quarter of the amount of effort other women put in and men still fuck with me regardless.

Just is what it is…. They can’t help it.