Heterosexual people do NOT have to have sex with anyone who was BORN of the same sex as them; if they don’t desire. Heterosexual people have a choice, and that choice should be protected like transgender people’s sexual preferences.
Transgender men can FEEL like a woman all day. Nobody is stopping you from FEELING like a woman….
But heterosexual men FEEL like they only want to have sex with natural born women, and that’s fine too.
Stop trying to emotionally manipulate people into being involved in a lifestyle and community they don’t want to be associated with…. I swear some of y’all pro-trans people try to emotionally guilt trip others into being involved in what some heterosexuals might consider homosexuality.
Transgender people’s feelings have no superiority over heterosexual people’s…. I should be able to select who I want to have sex with based on my OWN sexuality, not YOURS. Calling him FRAGILE or a PUNK (the same name calling and verbal abuse they used on homosexuals back in the day) does not take away any feelings of him being sexually violated.
How I, a woman (or in this case a heterosexual man) feels about or during any sexual encounter is VALID…. Don’t try to fucking bully men into being okay with things that they’re not….
Y’all pro-trans muthafuckas remind of people who try to make virgins feel guilty for not wanting to have sex. Just because a virgin gets horny doesn’t mean they should be guilt trip’d into sucking dick; and neither should a HETEROsexual man.
If you know heterosexual men don’t want to have sex with transgender people; you should tell men about your background to avoid violating his sexuality.
I mean damn…. How hard is it to only have sex with people who want to have sex with you. Stop violating people’s sexuality. It’s not rocket science. There are plenty of men who (after you disclose your history) will still want to have sex with you. I personally wouldn’t want to have sex with anyone who I suspect would regret it afterwards.
That shit can result in lasting emotional trauma to a heterosexual man, and pro-trans people solution is “he better stop acting like a fucking punk and get over it”…. Anything that can drive a man to cry, murder, or suicide is not something that we should force him to just get over. Clearly it caused some psychological damage, and at that point he is considered a victim. Your sexuality is yours, but (from a physical stand point) it shouldn’t negatively impact other people’s mental or physical health and/or emotional stability.
If that person is just upset you’re transgender then you can definitely say “get over it”…. But if you knowingly have sex with him and he’s suffering from PTSD afterwards; that shit is not okay…. I don’t give a fuck what your sexuality is; NOBODY should FEEL ashamed of themselves after they’ve had sex with another person.
Like I said, if I feel like there’s any possibility that someone will feel ashamed of having sex with me (afterwards), I’m not fucking doing it.
And since when did the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy get reinstated. I thought we did away with that to ensure homosexual and transgender people could be open about their sexuality. Now all of a sudden we want to conveniently keep secrets again. You ask any doctor on this planet if you should ask your sexual partner about their history and they’ll tell you “YES!”…. As soon as you are willing to have sex with another person, they have a right to know, and your history becomes their fucking business. Regardless of your sexuality you should be having OPEN and HONEST conversations about any history pertaining to sex, gender, preference, etc. This is what makes you a mature adult. Transgender people are not fucking exempt.
If you’re proud of who you are and you made the decision to be transgender; what’s the problem with telling him? You’re trying to intentionally deceive him and knowingly violate his sexuality, therefore considering how the events occur your ass might belong in jail.